WHY NOT SAY NO??

Could I ever take stand n say no when I really wanted to? A big question for which I always had an answer, but when I knew d answer y could I never implement it….
Still an unanswered question…
Situations came in tandem, bringing up d same question…. can u say no?? ya I can but then i cud not. Friends came and lectured for long n kept telling me things which I already knew but d only problem was the effectuation of those things.
whenever d situation came I persuaded myself to be patient as this cud, jus be another test of my patience.While on the path of becoming an engg and further part of corporate world , i should learn to handle these kind of situations.
The funniest part is that the reason I don deny a person is, becoz I fear his chafe. But things get worse when I bristle with anger and somehow manage to express d same later on. So I should rather stay calm n say things aboveboard. That will solve problems on both sides.. :-)

WELL BEGUN IS HALF DONE...

Cudn think of a good topic to write about,i wasted 15 minutes,Aditi asked,why am i wasting time so much on jus thinking of a topic? I said well begun is half done... k dis left me in state of intellection n i starting writin on it!!
Though the saying is not new to me but everytime it strikes my mind, it seems new. prolly becuz i always forget to implement it.
hope this time its not ephimeral...!!

MUSIC....

Its been only for the past few yrs since I started taking singing very seriously…Hats off to my friend for she cud realize d worth of music in my life which I cud never.Prolly cuz I always thought, I am going to be tech savvy in 4yrs so I shud be good at technical stuff. Even if dats not an inborn endowment,I shud imbibe it . Deferred for pretty long time but now I hv decided to balance the two…though d ultimate profession vl expect stuff vch s not ingrained. But one thing is certain its classical music vch is the mother of all music. So if by any chance u r planning to learn music, I would suggest to u to start with classical even if the requirement is different. That will make ur progression towards the next step easier, with no extra impetus……